
~ Society seems to put people into categories or groups, and judges them from those groups. Christian, atheists, believers, non-believers, male, female, republicans, democrats, conservatives, liberals, blacks, whites, Hispanics, poor, middle class, rich.
~ When someone achieves a new height, society labels them as the first Hispanic to achieve it, or the first black, or the first Mormon, or the first woman.
~ Perhaps, one day, we’ll aspire to be like those who achieve goals and goodness, not because they belong to a specific group, but solely because they are an inspiring individual human being.
Side note: Perhaps I’ll be the first Italian-American woman who aspired to be like her dog and achieved it … unconditional love. π But, I’d rather be one of many individual human beings who loves unconditionally, like dogs do.
Disclaimer: These are not claimed to be facts, just a simple humanβs observations. People change, we grow, and as such, so does the world.
Amen! Amen and Amen again, Lori. Thank you for sharing this. I want to learn to love unconditionally too.
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Thanks for checking out my meanderings, Kathy, and for understanding them. π
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Random observations are always thought provoking.
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You know it, Linda. π
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Labels are difficult to avoid. I’ll always be labelled a woman – it’s important to differentiate accomplishments by gender, don’t you know π I’ve had other labels though. Cliff/Polly’s Grandaughter, Janice/Newlo’s Daughter, Little Spook (associated with being Newlo’s daughter)… and now Welshy’s Missus…
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I don’t mind being labeled a woman. It’s the negative perceptions of these labels I’m speaking of. At one time, women were perceived and labeled as “beneath” men (and still so in some cultures). If we don’t label people into categories as “dumb” or “weaker” to begin with, then we don’t have these issues. We’d see people’s accomplishments as individual and something to aspire toward, instead of an accomplishment of an entire group. At least this is my observation. I certainly understand the labels “daughter” “wife” “sister” “mother”. I had a struggle with breaking myself out of those at one time too. But now, I’m simply, Lori. π Thanks for sharing your thoughts with me.
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If I aspire to be like my dog, all I would do is eat, sleep, and adore me. Overall, not bad qualities.
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Heh, so why not eat, sleep and adore yourself? π Actually, I was speaking of the unconditional love part. My dog loves me no matter what, and he has to live with me. π Thanks for stopping by, Robin.
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I’ve come to realize William (my dog) loves me because I am the hand that feeds him. I’m ok with that.
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William needs to read your blog posts. He’ll adore you for even more. π
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Very true and well written β¦but I donβt want to have somebody waving the tail for me all the time. Dogs are good for that and I love them. I rather go for your love/friendship..
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Don’t worry, Viveka, I won’t go that far and wag my tail for you. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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It never ceases to amaze me: We all seem to be such champions of individual expression, while boxing others into some cliched perception. lol! xoM
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So true, Margarita. Thanks for reading.
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Love it!
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Well said!
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Thank you for stopping by to read it, Anneli. π
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Woof Woof, Lori.
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π
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